4. Distilling a rational roadmap to believing in love
I believe that everyone's opinion makes sense in the context of what they are aware of. However, we are never aware of everything. Thus often times, opinions do not spread because other people are aware of other things that discredit the opinion.
I am unaware of many things, but I believe that all this time thinking has made me aware of many other things that are not easily accessible otherwise.
One reason I am sharing this is that I, for a long time, had trouble believing people promoting the type of behaviour that I now promote (love, understanding, etc). I often times believed that the rationales were disconnected from the real world.
However, after all this thinking, I now believe that it makes sense. Luckily for many of these loving people, they reached this understanding without having to dry up their skins on hot baths (though to be fair, they probably had to sacrifice other things). Lucky for people like me though, I believe to be in possession of a more "rational" roadmap, which you can now see me try to distill as much as possible.